Thirty-Day Challenge
Day 13: A Band or Song that has Gotten You Through Difficult Days
This is a blogging challenge I got from a friend. Every day for 30 days is a pre-determined topic. Some are negative. Some are positive. All are introspective.
I love music. Music is powerful – it can bring you closer to God, it can screw your mind up, it can make you said, it can relieve stress, and other powerful traits.
I can’t just say 1 band or song because different bands are used for different purposes.
Coal Chamber, Zao, Slip Knot, Any Screamo – I like hard music. Sometimes harder than others. Punk seems to be my fav but metal is good too. But there’s a category of hard metal called screamo. The music itself is pumping, hard, loud, etc. It’s drum heavy. One can barely make out the lyrics because the vocalist screams the lyrics – usually in an angry voice like he’s pissed off at the world. Whenever I’m angry, upset, stressed, ready to kill people, just agitated; this music saves me. I don’t tell people when I’m angry. I don’t let my irritability, anger, rage show and I think I’m pretty good at it. For better or for worse. But this music is cathartic to me. (It can also put me to sleep if I can’t sleep and I listen to it.) I picture me as the vocalist on stage screaming it and as the drummer beating the drum instruments as hard as possible. Sometimes I’ve been known, only by me, to shake my fists or some physical action to accompany the music. But if I close my eyes and sit back and listen to it, soon I’ll be as calm as can be. My counselor recommended a group called Scars of Eden. Their lyrics glorify God. He said even though we say we can’t understand the lyrics, they affect us in our sub-conscious. I’ve yet to try them.
Good Charlotte’s “Hold On” – If one ever struggles with suicidal thoughts; whether intense or just casual, this song is a must to keep on an iPod or CD or something. The music video is awesome too. This song lets one know that there’s hope. That the current situation will change. That things get better. That ever7hody has times like this. One of the band members either had a friend or family member commit suicide and or struggled with depression himself. I forget. But in the heat of the moment, this song is a must. It gets you back in reality and less focused on entertaining these kinds of thoughts. Like I said, the video is a must as well. Their music is great. I forget the names, but a couple songs are helpful as well.
Three Day’s Grace “Never Too Late” – A song similar to “Hold On”. Life sucks sometimes but it gets better and you can get new starts throughout life.
Three Day’s Grace “Pain” – This song helps get me through depression and helps me see that it is better to feel some kind of pain – physical, mental, emotional – than feel nothing. Sometimes I go numb and have no emotion. This song reminds me that it’s okay to feel pain and as long as you’re feeling pain you’re moving in the right direction. Make sense? Not feeling anything usually means you’re slipping deeper and deeper into depression.Also, depression meds can cause numbness. and so this song is a reminder, an encourager, etc.
I feel I should chase a rabbit trail here. This is one of my major pet peeves. Christ-followers and the religious have a nasty habit of labeling music as Christian or secular. What is secular anyway? (one of those questions not meant to be answered – forgive me English buffs). First of all, music itself is neither. It can’t be either. Lyrics are what people should be talking about. Christian or secular is the wrong question. The right question is whether it glorifies God or not. Does this move me closer to God or farther away? Artists who are not believers are capable of writing music that glorifies God and can help a person out. Like the song I described above, “Hold On”, is an example. I kinda doubt those guys in Good Charlotte are believers. But this song is meant to help people. It’s meant to encourage them. To prevent people from taking their lives by telling them things will get better. Now better is a relative point. But you get what I’m trying to say. Dave Matthews is another example, for the most part, of maybe not a believer but his music being a kind of change agent. Then there’s music like Gasnsta Rap, some country songs, the song “Crazy B**&$%” by Buck Cherry, and others that purely don’t glorify God. If you just go by Christian and secular categorizations of music, I feel you miss out on music by non-believers that can encourage you, help you, and be glorifying to God. Nuff said!
Now for the wrong end of this concept, comes the depressing music. When I’m stuck in depression, sometimes (okay many times) I don’t want to get out. Long-term yes. But sometime in the short-term it’s easy to wallow in it and not want to get out. Blaine Larson’s “How Do You Get that Lonely”, Blink-182′s “Adam’s Song”, Beck’s “Loser”, and others are songs that do “encourage” depression. Plus in a maybe morbid kind of way, reminds me others are dealing with crap and are depressed too. I don’t know.
Music is powerful. I love it. It has definitely gotten me through good and bad times.
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Posted on August 27th, 2011 by Andy
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